I know an AC who refuses to go out with the crew after wrap. He told me, “I see these people all day, every day. Why would I want to spend more time with them?”
Of course, he was dating his 2nd, so, there you go.
Working on a TV show is exhausting (or boring). Most days, you just want to go home and do nothing. But when your hear people are getting drinks, sometimes you just gotta suck it up and keep going. This business is about networking, after all.
I do sympathize with him, though. I just spent twelve hours with this crew. I see them more than I see my wife. What else could we possibly have left to talk about at the end of the day?